The Sober Romantic Adventure Calendar

The Sober Romantic Adventure Calendar (SRAC) is not about filling your time. It is about awakening your life.

It is for the woman who has spent years taking care of everyone else…for the woman who feels a little shy, a little hesitant, a little unsure of where she fits…for the woman who’s sober now and finding her footing…for the woman who wants more but doesn’t quite know how to step into it yet.

It is for the woman who secretly knows:

“There is a bigger, bolder, more beautiful version of me inside. I just need a little nudge, a little encouragement, a little adventure to find her.”
— The Sober Romantic
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Increase self-confidence.

Each adventure is a gentle dare. A soft push. A quiet, “I can do this.”

Each adventure builds more courage and at then end you will realize,

“I’m not afraid of living life as a single woman, I’m actually really good at it.”

Why a Sober Romantic Adventure?

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Rediscover your true spirit.

Each adventure will help you remember what you like. They give you chance to disregard what the world had told you, what your relationships shaped, what substance use muted.

Each adventure recalls what lights you up and makes you feel alive.

“ I am returning to the real me, the woman God had always designed me to be.”

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Make magic.

Each adventure is a chance to stop waiting for a partner to bring magic into your life. YOU become the source of magic.

Each adventure opens up a world of magic, and you will discover,

“Romance isn’t something I’m missing. It’s something I create.”

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Heal through joy.

Each adventure heals the trauma, co-dependency, heartbreak, addiction tried to steal your joy.

Each adventure, step-by-step and day-by-day, will bring healing as you bring more beauty into your life.

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Learn to trust yourself.

Each adventure pushes you to show up for yourself, you begin to trust yourself. And when you trust yourself, you become unstoppable.

Each adventure is an act of self-loyalty., promises kept, and will have you singing,

“I am worth planning for. I am worth taking on a date. I am worth it.”

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Hear from God.

God often speaks through unexpected places.

Each adventure gives God more places to meet you. More moments to wink at you. More assurances that you are chosen by Him.

Send your selfies and other cool pics to Diana@soberromantic.com. Your picture may be just the motivation another sis needs to start her adventure.

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Sober Romantic Adventure 30 Day Calendar

  • Adventure 1: Go to a different grocery store than your usual store but make it romantic. Buy a luxury item (flowers, artisan bread, candles).

    Adventure 2: Drive to the prettiest neighborhood in your town. Play your favorite music. Enjoy the beau. ty around you. Make mental notes for your vision board.

    Adventure 3: Try a new coffee shop (maybe one spotted when you were driving through that pretty neighborhood). Tell the barista what you typically order and if she can recommend something new for you to try. Pull out your phone and take a picture of your coffee or something that strikes you in the environment.

    Adenture 4: Get a mani/pedi. You’re the queen.

    Adventure 5: Sunset mini-road trip. Drive somewhere scenic 20-30 minutes away from your home and watch the sky. Take a picture of something that strikes you as a once in a lifetime view. Look for it.

    Adventure 6: Visit a plant nursery. Pick out something small for your home or garden. Inquire if the nursery conducts classes (some do!). Bonus adventure points if they offer a class and you register for it (and then attend it!)

    Adventure 7: Visit an International District in your town. Walk the shops, buy a trinket, eat someting fun, and take some pictures.

    Recovey Adventure: Visit a new in-person meeting.

  • Adventure 1: Visit an art museum or an art gallery.

    Adventure 2: Go on a thrift store treasure hunt, Find one beautiful and quirky piece.

    Adventure 3: Take a spontanteous higway exit. Visit a new area you’ve never seen.

    Adventure 4: Take a hike in a new park or on a new trail.

    Adventure 5: Take yourself to the movies. Treat yourself to a popcorn, but make it a kids size.

    Adventure 6: Window shop in the bougie part of town. Pretend you’re shopping for your future house. Take a picture of something you love and can’t afford yet. Put it on your vision board (or in your vision board folder).

    Adventure 7: Farmer’s Market morning. Stroll, buy something fresh.

    Recovery Adventure: Attend a new meeting and be of service. (arrive early, set up chairs, read, share, or stay late and clean up afterwards.)

  • Adventure 1: Try a new workout class. ilates, barre, zumba - something different.

    Adventure 2: Visit a historic district. Take photos like a tourist.

    Adventure 3: Visit a new Church. Smile and be friendly.

    Adventure 4: Go to lunch at a new restaurant alone. Order a beautiful entree. Sit confidently.

    Adventure 5: Go to a scenic overlook at sunrise. Bring coffee and your journal.

    Advnture 6: Visit your local library. Find a comfy nook and something unusual to read. Bonus. Browse the bulletin board and find an activity to attend.

    Adventure 7: Live music. Go listen to some live musin in a non-bar, chill environment setting. Soak up the jams and the atmosphere.

    Recovery Adventure: Go to a meeting you do not normally attend and invite one woman to have coffee with you afterwards.

  • Adventure 1: Pack a picnic and take yourself to a park for lunch. Even if it is a turkey sandwich and a drink.

    Aventure 2: Take a ay trip to a nearby town. One hour away. Explore. Smile. Have fun. Be curious.

    Adventure 3: Take a simple class. Go to a dance class, a cooking class, and art class.

    Adventure 4: Go to a fancy hotel and sit in the lobby with a fancy coffee. Sit, read, people watch.

    Adventure 5: Get a scalp massage, a blow out, reflexology, or visit a salt cave. Enjoy some high feminine pampering.

    Adventure 6: Go to a small bookstore. Buy a coffee or treat if available. Browse through poetry, art, or cookbooks.

    Adventure 7; Go to a lake or river and take a slow, beautiful stroll. Meet God there.

    Recovery Adventure: Try a different meeting type. Go to a meditation meeting, a zoom meeting, a speaker meeting, or a newcomers meeting.